"I am a mother of three (ages
14, 12, & 3) and have recently completed my college degree. The last
class I had to take was Sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring
with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with.
Her last project of the term was called "Smile."
The class was asked to go out
and smile at three people and document their reaction. I am a very friendly
person and always smile at everyone and say, hello anyway.....so, I thought,
this would be a piece of cake, literally.
Soon after we were assigned
the project, my husband, my youngest son, and I went out to McDonalds,
one crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing special play time
with our son. We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all
of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband
did.
I did not move an inch...an
overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside me as I turned to see why
they had moved. As I turned around, I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell...and
there standing behind me were two poor homeless men. As I looked down at
the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling." His beautiful sky blue
eyes were full of God's light as he searched for acceptance. He said, "Good
day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching. the second man
fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second
man was mentally deficient and the blue eyed gentle man was his salvation.
I held my tears...as I stood
there with them. The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.
He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford (to
sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy someting...they just
wanted to be warm). Then I really felt it the compulsion was so great I
almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.
That is when I noticed all eyes
in the restaurant were set on me...judging my every action. I smiled and
asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals
on a separate tray. I then walked around the corner to the table that the
men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid
my hand on the blue eyed gentleman's cold hand. He looked up at me,
with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you." I leaned over, began to
pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you...God is here winking
through me to give you hope."
I started to cry as I walked
away to join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me
and said, "That is why God gave you to me honey....to give me hope." We
held hands for a moment and at that time we knew that only because of the
Grace were we able to give. We are not church goers, but we are believers.
That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.
I returned to college, on the
last evening of class, with this story in hand. I turned in "my project"
and the instructor read it...then she looked up at me and said, "Can I
share this?" I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class. She
began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings (part of
God) share this need to heal.In my own way I had touched the people
at McDonalds, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the
classroom on the last night I spent as a college student. I graduated with
one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn...unconditional acceptance...after
all...we are here to learn!
Much love and compassion sent
to each and every person who may read this. Learn how to love people and
use things, NOT love things and use people."
(I have no idea of the author
of this document - if you recognise it as yours please contact me and you
will receive the credit that is deserved. It was sent to me in an email
and I thought it was a really lovely story)